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Why We Prefer New Year’s Planning in September

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Transitioning from the hazy days of summer back into the realities of fall for some reason tends to feel very fortifying.

 

Maybe it’s because our days that have consisted of a loose schedule and dozing in the sunshine are now moving towards a crisper breeze and we are awakening back to life. And as the sun moves toward the southern horizon, our days are gradually shortening; which gives us the clue to renovate our productivity cycles.

Everywhere we look at this time, the trending topic is back to school season. Though many of us are prepping for this change, there is another theme of importance as well:

 

September says, “fresh start.”

The majority of people still set their goals every January 1st, but September is a steady second in becoming the new time for “New Year’s Resolutions.” Think about it – after a holiday season of stress, family time, over-indulging, and diet-breaking, is it really realistic to try and break our bad habits or create new ones?

 

September already brings the air of change, so since we are subconsciously set in the mood for reconstructing, let’s use that to our advantage and set some goals!

 

Firstly, Understand Your Goal…

 

Let’s organize your goals into these three categories: Personal, Career, and Finance.

 

The most important part of setting a goal with the intention of actually achieving it, is to really reflect on WHY you are choosing this goal. Do you feel obligated to do it, or is it something you truly want?

 

You should be passionate about your goals for the right reasons as opposed to settling for them based on what you (or others) think you should be doing! With this in mind, you will feel the motivation in your heart and that will carry you through the steps needed to reach it.

 

…But Always Remain Flexible.

 

Make sure to revisit each category on a regular basis and update or change any goals that seem outdated to you, or that no longer align with the path you want to take in life.

It’s okay to cancel things out that you once thought would be good for you – people change, careers change, and our big goals can change too! This does not mean you failed, it just means you are staying true to what you really want.

 

For example, if you’re fighting unnecessarily hard with yourself to get up extra early and implement a specific morning routine, maybe the goal is not currently something in your bandwidth. You may be better off focusing on a calming night routine instead.

 

Remember – following what feels natural to you is likely the best for you, listen to your body and build on the positive routines you already have in place. Once these are optimized, then you can begin these slow steps for other, more difficult goals.

 

Reach Out To Your Inner Circle.

 

One of the more surefire ways to keep yourself on track is to enlist others to keep you on track. It might be easy to sweep your goals off today, tomorrow, or all week… but your inner circle will kick your butt and hold you accountable like no other!

 

These people want you to succeed and at the same time see so much potential in you. Tell your inner circle what you’re trying to achieve so they can regularly ask about your progress. Or if you want a smaller accountability method, try just with a partner.

 

Who can you commit to that you trust to hold you responsible and at times, deliver brutal honesty?

 

And don’t just put it on someone else to keep you on track – set yourself digital alerts of your goals and daily steps, so you stay inspired and focused throughout the day and week.

Check-In With Yourself.

 

If you set goals last January, check back in with them now. Are any of them still unaccomplished, or now irrelevant? Revamp the ones you’d like to keep and cross off the ones which you no longer want to adhere to.

 

Whether you are redoing or creating new goals, keep these three Q’s in mind for setting the steps:

 

What is one thing you would like to stop, one thing you would like to start, and one thing you would like to continue?

 

Keep a record (digital or written) of your accomplishments along the way. This will inspire you on gloomy days, and show you just how productive you were all year by next September when you look back and review all of the hard work you put into the past year. You should feel proud!

Be The Tortoise, Not The Hare.

 

You will never cross the finish line if you burn out – or at least, you won’t be able to race the same again. Don’t push yourself past your limits and remember to take breaks. The goal race is in fact, not a race at all!

 

Set your pace and stick with what feels comfortable. Push yourself when you can, and give yourself grace days when needed. Rome was not built in a day, and you won’t be the best version of yourself overnight. It takes time, perseverance, and self-control. We all have our days of slip ups and setbacks, but what makes us truly successful is when we get back up and try again.

 

And again.

 

And again if needed!

 

Now that September is just a week away, what goals are you going to set for this year?

Comment below!

 

 

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Reduce Stress and Mind Clutter: Minding Your Mind

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“Hey Sherry,

Could you write about how to free mind clutter?”

 

Have you ever gone to bed at the end of a stressful day, only to lay there for hours thinking of all the things you need to do the next day?

 

You stress over all the things you need to do and try not to forget when you get up in the morning. Things like calls, emails, and texts to reply to. Kids’ school papers to sign, groceries to buy, what to cook for dinner, and a birthday party to plan. Oh, and don’t forget all the errands, too!😮‍💨

 

Next thing you know you’re waking up exhausted in the morning with a major lack of sleep from all the mental notes to remember.

 

This is called mind clutter.

These are stress signs from your brain that you need to slow down your mental pace and reduce mind clutter.

You could organize your house a hundred times over but when it comes down to it – your headspace follows you everywhere in life. You need to declutter your mind in order to really take care of your personal well-being.

 

No amount of reading quotes online or thinking “I need to get back to myself” is going to transform your mind to a state of peace. You just simply have to do the work.

 

Which brings us to the question…how can we reduce stress and mental clutter? As a Professional Organizer, I have had a ton of experience teaching how to organize both physically and mentally.

 

I see firsthand every day what works and what doesn’t. These habits are what I incorporate into my everyday routine and I now reap the benefits of my mind clutter being off my mind.

 

Saying Goodbye to Mind Clutter Anxiety:

 

✍️ Write it down:

Do a “brain dump” and get your thoughts onto something visual like a notebook or your phone. Write down all the tasks, reminders, errands, dreams, and goals that are cluttering your mind and keeping you awake at night. Don’t evaluate or try to organize this list, just let it flow onto the paper. This exercise alone will remove most of the mind clutter causing you stress, anxiety, frustration, and sleepless nights!

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📝 Prioritize Your List:

Look at the list you just made from the mind clutter brain dump and highlight or circle the most important tasks that you want to accomplish next week. This will make the biggest impact on cutting your list down! Sometimes completing one task will take care of many other small tasks, kind of like a domino effect.

 

🧘🏽Meditate:

The goal of meditation can fluctuate. It doesn’t always need to be a deep experience or take a lot of time. Allotting yourself time throughout the day to focus on yourself is highly rewarding. The length can be flexible; maybe some days you have a good hour, some days only five minutes. It can be however best fits your lifestyle and however often you feel will give you the benefits you desire. Try asking yourself what you really need in the moment and allow any feelings, words, or images to flow.

 

Listen to your body and notice how you feel after just these few exercises. Are your shoulders more relaxed and not up at your ears? Are you breathing more calmly? Do you feel more in control and confident that your reminders aren’t slipping through the cracks?🤔

 

All these emotions and feelings are mind clutter. Let’s uncover some more on how to reduce stress and mind clutter:

 

📆 Use a Calendar System:

Pick your tool and stick to it! I can’t stress this enough. Use a digital calendar or a hybrid of a paper planner, daily task list, and/or digital planner. Digital lets you capture appointments and reminders within the moment no matter where you are. Writing down in a traditional paper planner to plan the next day works for others who are more hands-on. Personally, I use a paper planner and a digital planner and I like to plan my day the night before. This sets my mind at ease – which means I get better sleep and I’ve already put my plan in motion for the next day.

🕐 Batch and Block Time:

This is the secret sauce to being highly productive. When you batch time to do specific tasks, you reduce the mind clutter of switching back and forth between different tasks. Batching also saves you time as you’re not multi-tasking and unfocused.  Things to batch are; calls to make, checking your email twice a day, content creation, errands, organizing your computer photos, family time, meal prep, and the like.

 

In conclusion, the more we can consciously manage our to-do lists, the more we are able to unpack our stresses. When a weekly schedule is organized it leaves us with more time to relax and enjoy that time with our loved ones – and who doesn’t need more of that?❤️

 

If this article reminds you of someone who needs to declutter their mind, pass along the tips!

 

 

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Top 10 Tips to Beat Procrastination (Part 1 of 3)

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As I’m writing this article the stopwatch on my iPhone is set for 30 minutes to complete this article.  Then I’ll take a 5 minute break, come back and set the stopwatch for another 30 minutes to upload on my blog, send to my S.O.S. Newsletter community and post this to my social media.  I have  allowed myself an extra 30 minutes for editing and troubleshooting in case any technical issues come up.  So that’s a total of 1.5 hours from beginning to end to complete this task.  Oh and before I even started this article, I posted on Facebook that this article was coming in a few hours.  So, talk about beating procrastination!

 What is Procrastination?

According to Wikipedia, procrastination is ”the practice of carrying out less urgent tasks in preference to more urgent ones, or doing more pleasurable things in place of less pleasurable ones, and thus putting off impending tasks to a later time.”

Yes, I see how procrastination as crept into my day on certain tasks because it’s a lot more fun to do the pleasurable tasks.  Can you relate to this?  I’m sure I’m not alone.

Missing opportunities, being late for work, class, meetings or other appointments creates undo stress, overwhelm, guilt and often times resentment from those who were waiting for us and these are just some of the symptoms.  And what about the physical and mental impact this has on our body and mind.

How about all the times you said you would do something for someone else?  Or all the times you promised yourself that you would take time to go for a walk, exercise, eat healthier meals and take time for yourself.

So What Are You Procrastinating On?

I’ll share with you one task I procrastinated on for years.  The night before my bookkeeper would come to my office, I’d be stressed, frustrated and up till 2:00am and then get up early the next morning to finish the task.  When I first started my business it was growing fast and I didn’t have all my business systems in place.  Plus, I didn’t know what I needed to have in place.  For years I made the mistake of scheduling in my calendar “Get ready for Bookkeeper” and proceeded to procrastinate.  Hmmm…I wonder why?

Well, I don’t like the task and its low on my priority list, but it’s a necessity as a business owner and I don’t like the penalties and late fees if I’m late on my reporting.  One day I said enough stress and last minute drama and I opened up a calendar event in Gmail and proceeded to write down all the tasks involved in “Get ready for Bookkeeper.”  Wow, there were a lot of tasks and it always took a lot longer to do than I had scheduled for.

One of the tasks in preparing for the meeting with my bookkeeper was to print off receipts from all my online services so she could match them up to my credit card statement, merchant account and bank statement.  In Canada, it’s a requirement to have printed receipts and this is such a time consuming task.  So, I bookmarked all the login pages and created a folder on my browser toolbar called “Finance” and a sub folder called “Month End”.  I also typed out all the tasks in my Gmail appointment and made it recurring once a month.

Do you know how much time that has saved me over the years and it can be totally delegated.  Stress levels are reduced significantly whenever I see the task in my Calendar now and there are only a few tasks that I need to do and the rest are delegated.  When I see the task “Month End – Prepare for Bookkeeper” I simply open up the task and all the next action steps are planned out and a click away.

Tip #1 – Your Calendar is Your Stress Reducer

Your calendar is your stress reducer and a place to get things out of your head and onto paper or into your electronic calendar.  Take it a step further and write in the amount of time you think the task will take.  Than double the time and schedule a more realistic time-frame into your calendar.  Refer to your calendar often to see what the next step is.

Tip #2 – Get Clear on the Next Step

Often times, we procrastinate on a task or big project because we are unclear about what the next action step is.  You’ve heard the saying “you can’t eat an elephant in one bit.”  Well the same is true for getting things done whether it’s a small task or a big project.  If you are procrastinating on a getting something done, take a time out, and write out all the tasks that are required to get that task or project to completion.

Many times when we have a task in our calendar like “go to gym,” organize garage,” “launch new product,” “return phone call,” or “get taxes to accountant” there are probably several tasks inside the task that need to be done first.  Get clear on the next step and schedule each task with the appropriate amount of time.

Tip #2 – Delegate or Streamline Unpleasant Tasks

Sometimes it’s just not a pleasant task to do and you simply don’t want to do it.  We can come up with all kinds of reasons to procrastinate on the task.  When all you need to do is ask yourself “What is the next action step?”  When you are clear on the next steps that is what you schedule into your calendar.  When you look at your calendar it’s easier to see yourself actually completing the task at the specified time and less chance of procrastinating.

Create a recurring appointment in your calendar and list all the tasks inside the appointment.  Include any links to documents, websites and resources that you may need to complete the task.  Set yourself up to succeed at completing the task.

Tip #4 – Build in Accountability

Setting boundaries, building in accountability and creating realistic time frames is a great first step to set you up for success, change a habit and beat procrastination.

Action Required: What will you do today to set yourself up for success and beat procrastination?  Leave your comments below.

In part two, we’ll discuss other topics like perfectionism which is a big and a huge time-waster that steels away our time.  Stay tuned next week.